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If you respect me, pay me (because we can’t help you if we’re broke)
Excerpt: I know I’m not the only woman that has a weird relationship with asking for money. But if we want to be respected by others, first we need to learn how to respect ourselves… including, asking for compensation for our time, effort and experience. In this...



If you respect me, pay me (because we can’t help you if we’re broke)
Excerpt: I know I’m not the only woman that has a weird relationship with asking for money. But if we want to be respected by others, first we need to learn how to respect ourselves… including, asking for compensation for our time, effort and experience. In this...


Why high heels are more than *just* sex & power (at least for me)
A quick warning – this article discusses suicidal ideation and disordered eating. Please use care before reading. I own approximately 70 pairs of high heels, this after culling circa 50 pairs only a few months ago. Some are super-duper high, some are more casual and...


“Why is it so hard to change?” – explained.
Jay Z (Shawn Carter), at only 12 years of age, shot his older brother after he stole one of his rings. The theft was due to being addicted to crack cocaine and needing a hit. "Saw the devil in your eyes, high off more than weed, confused, I just closed my young eyes...


When quitting is the right choice.
I told myself that if I wasn’t successful by 40, I’d quit. I quit when I was 43. Oh, you thought this was going to be about how ‘not’ to quit, right? A motivational manifesto about grit, perseverance and drive? Nope. Because while that might work for some people, for...


Three ways to prioritise you (but it’s not what you think)
You already know you need to do more self-care - that ain’t rocket science. You already know you need to better manage stress - you’re not from Mars. You already know you need more shoes - because you’re only human. Ok, that last one was a stretch, but I truly believe...


5 tips to become *better* at networking
Picture this. You’re at a networking event. The grazing board is a hit. The conversation is flowing. The buzz is buzzing. And in walks… her.Oh you know exactly who I’m talking about. She’s got sass. She’s got style. She’s got her $hit together. Is she even human?...


How to let go of things that don’t serve you (and learn from them, too).
How to look ahead to a bright future while learning from the storms of the past.


Afraid of conflict? Me too. Here’s how to make difficult conversations a little less difficult.
Does the following sound familiar? Me, in an argument: *blabbers* *presents one average point* Me, reflecting in the shower on how I could have answered: *eloquent presentation with multiple points all backed by peer reviewed articles*It does to me, big time. While...


It’s 7 days into the New Year’s Resolutions: here’s how to make them stick.
On January 1st of each year, most of us make a resolution to be a better version of ourselves. Whether it’s to resolve our health, our jobs, our relationships or our shopping addictions, by January 2nd, most of us are back to where we started (hello shoe sales!). In...


Three ways to feel better about failure.
Whether you’re building a new business, nurturing a complex relationship, half way through a degree or at the start of a new health regimen - ‘screw this’ would have passed your mind at least once 300 times. Indeed, giving up is incredibly enticing, especially when...


Here’s what to do when you feel small in a big world.
This year marked the 75th anniversary of the United Nations Associations of Australia, a celebration which I was very honoured to attend. Of the many eye-opening speakers, it was Grace Forrest’s heart-felt speech that hit home for me. “For every 130 girls or women on...


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