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Stop overthinking. Start getting what you want.

You know exactly what to do. Here's where you find out why you're not doing it.

See What’s Holding You Back

This is where ambitious people-pleasers grow the chutzpah to live life on their own terms.

Hiya! I’m Dr Katherine Iscoe.

A speaker, writer, ex-people-pleaser and a self-respect advocate for ambitious women who feel like nothing is ever good enough.

I know what it’s like to look perfect on paper… yet still feel empty inside.

I also know what’s possible when you stop overthinking, stop explaining, and respect yourself first so you can wake up excited, moving with momentum, and finally feeling like your effort truly counts.

And I want that for you, too.

Which self-respect zone are you in?

Discover how self-respect is shaping (or stalling) your life — and get a practical, 18-page guide with simple steps to boost your self-trust and grow into the next version of you.

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The Self-Respect Playbook For People Pleasers

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Craving more?

From free downloads to a 30-day audio boost — and the 7-Day Intensive for real-time, no-BS clarity — I’ve got you covered.

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Tools, Guides & More for People-Pleasers

Practical, no-fluff guides, quizes and more to help you build better boundaries, stop saying yes when you mean no, and finally feel proud of putting yourself first, minus the guilt, so you have more time do what matters.

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30 Days to Stop Overthinking Everything

A short daily audio booster that you can listen to while walking, driving or hiding in the bathroom from your family (I see you). Bite-sized truths to help you ditch people-pleasing and trust yourself again, in less than 10 minutes a day.

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The Self-Respect Reset: 7-Day Private Intensive

If you’re smart, successful and still spiralling in your own head, you don’t need more motivation. You need a mindset tune-up and a clear plan to stop people-pleasing on autopilot. This 7-day private reset gives you exactly that.

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Bring This Conversation to Your Stage or Mic

Let’s inspire your audience to stop people-pleasing so they can achieve more, faster (and stop overthinking every single text before hitting send).

Book me as Speaker

Looking for a keynote speaker that goes deeper than motivation?

If your audience is smart, successful but held back because they're trying to be everyone's best friend,  I’ll help them see what’s really holding them back — then show them how self-respect unlocks the kind of confidence they don’t have to fake.

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Looking for someone who says the stuff we're thinking out loud?

Want an honest, unfiltered conversation about high-achievers, hidden people-pleasing, and why self-respect beats toxic positivity every time? I’ll bring raw truth and real talk your audience won’t forget.

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